Τι μας ελκυει σεξουαλικα;

Συχνα μας ελκυουν αυτοι που μας κανουν να αισθανομαστε οικεια, σιγκεκριμενα ατομα απο την οικογενεια μας. Αυτα τα ατομα ειτε μοιαζουν απολυτα με καποιο συγγενικο μας προσωπο ειτε ειναι τελειως αντιθετοι.

Τα σεξουαλικα προτυπα διαφερουν απο ατομο σε ατομο, ομως ο μεσος ορος προτιμαει στους ανδρες αδυνατες κοπελες με καμπυλες και με μεγαλο στηθος, ενω στις γυναικες ανδρες με μυς, ομορφους, με γλυκο προσωπο.
Το πιο συχνο φαινομενο σεξουαλικου προτυπου ειναι απο τα Μ.Μ.Ε οπου το ατομο «ερωτευεται» ενα διασημο προσωπο και το εκλυει σεξουαλικα.

Απο ερευνες που εγιναν σε νεους προεκυψαν τα εξης αποτελεσματα:
Στα αγορια:

  • Το 50% προτιμαει κοριτσια με ωραιο προσωπο, ωραιες αναλογιες(οπισθια, στηθος, καμπυλες) και καλο χαρακτηρα.
  • Το 30% προτιμαει κοριτσια με ωραιο προσωπο και ωραιες αναλογιες (οπισθια, στηθος, καμπυλες)
  • Το 20% προτιμαει κοριτσια με ωραιο σωμα γενικοτερα.

Στα κοριτσια:

  • Το 70% προτιμαει αγορια με καλο χαρακτηρα( αστειος, ευγενικος, ντροπαλος, να ειναι ο εαυτος του), ωραιο σωμα( ψηλος, οχι πολυ γυμνασμενος), ωραιο προσωπο (γλυκο προσωπο, πρασινα/γαλαζια ματια, babyface)
  • Το 20% προτιμαει αγορια με καλο χαρακτηρα (να εχει χιουμορ, να κανει βλακειες αλλα να ειναι ωριμος, να εχει αποψεις, εξυπνος), ωραια χαρακτηριστικα προσωπου( καστανοξανθους, γαλαζοπρασινα/καστανα ματια, μακρια μαλλια)
  • Το 10% προτιμαει αγορια με καλο χαρακτηρα( καλο παιδι, ευγενικος, ντροπαλος, πνευματικα καλλιεργημενος, ρομαντικος)

 

Published in: on Δεκέμβριος 4, 2011 at 2:34 μμ  Σχολιάστε  

The opposite of love

Με αφορμή το γεγονός πως υπάρχουν άτομα στη ζωη μου που με μισούν, με φθονούν κατέληξα στο εξής:
Το μίσος δεν είναι τελικά το αντίθετο της αγάπης. Το μίσος είναι συναίσθημα.
Το αντίθετο της αγάπης είναι πιστεύω η απάθεια, η αδιαφορία.
Αυτοί που με μισούν θα πρέπει να νιώθουν κάτι για μένα, αλλιώς δεν θα μπορούσαν να με μισήσουν, υπάρχει έτσι το ενδεχόμενο να μπορέσω να επικοινωνήσω μαζί τους.
Δεν με στεναχωρούν που με μισούν γιατί για να συμβαίνει αυτό σημαίνει πως έχω προσωπικότητα.
Θα στεναχωρηθώ όταν διαπιστώσω πως τους αφήνω παγερά αδιάφορους,τότε θα νιώσω ανίσχυρη γιατί δεν θα με βλέπουν καν, δεν θα έχω καμία ελπίδα να τους πλησιάσω.
Τους ευχαριστώ που υπάρχουν και νιώθουν έτσι για μένα, έτσι με κάνουν πιο δυνατή και δημιουργική.

Angie

Published in: on Φεβρουαρίου 15, 2011 at 3:25 μμ  Σχολιάστε  

Review of my favorite book! :)

Snow in April is a quintessential Rosamunde Pilcher novel. Like most of her books, this is a classic love story.

The novel is set in Scotland, where Caroline and her brother travel there. Caroline, persuaded by her brother Jody at the beggining of the book decides to take a trip to Scotland to see their brother Angus, whom they haven’t seen for years. So, when a neighbor friend agrees to let Caroline use his old car to travel, they set off for this trip. What happens as snow falls in April in Scotland, that both of them get stuck in snow, leaving them stranded, but not for long. They are almost to their destination when they meet a kind gentleman, Oliver Cairney, who provides shelther and food for Caroline and Jody. They have feelings for each other, but she is engaged to be married soon. The story has a very interesting turn out in the end.

This is a must-read book for fans of love stories. With only 245 pages, snow in April may be the perfect starting point for those readers intimated by Pilcher’s prose. Snow in April is a sweet, touching book, sure to be enjoyed by commoisseuns of love stories everywhere.

Published in: on Ιανουαρίου 21, 2011 at 1:00 μμ  Σχολιάστε  

Τι είναι άραγε η αγάπη;

Λοιπον,επειδη πρεπει να αρχισω και την δουλεια μου θα γραψω κατι απλό.
Αγαπη είναι να εισαι ησυχος.
Αγαπη ειναι να μην εξαρτασαι απο αυτο που αγαπάς.
Κανεις δεν αγαπα αυτο απο το οποιο εξαρτάται.
Αγαπη είναι να μην κανεις κόλαση την ζωη του άλλου.
Αγαπη σημαινει ασφάλεια.
Σημαινει ωριμότητα και κατανόηση.
Σημαινει θυσία και ξεβόλεμα..
Σημαινει ζησε και ασε τους άλλους να ζησουν,και οχι ζησε και ασε τους αλλους να πεθάνουν.
Αγαπη σημαινει εμπιστοσύνη.
Οχι κλαματα και διαρκη ηλιθιο και γελοιο ελεγχο της ζωης του άλλου.

Αγαπη σημαινει σε δέχομαι οπως εισαι.
Δεν σου ζητω να αλλάξεις για να γινεις αρεστός.
Σε θελω να εισαι ο εαυτός σου.
Αγαπη σημαινει ηλιος και ξαστερια,
και οχι ηλιθια κλαματα και μάτια κόκκινα απο το κλάμα.
Αγαπη σημαινει ελα σε περιμένω να σε δω,και ενδιάμεσα ειμαι ευτυχισμένος διχως να ανησυχω για τις σκεψεις σου και τις κινήσεις σου.
Σου εχω εμπιστοσύνη.
Ειμαι ησυχος.
Επιθυμω να ειμαι ησυχος.
Οχι αλλο πόνο και ανώριμότητα.
Σε κοιταζω και σε πιστευω.
Δεν ελεγχω σαν ηλιθιος τα τηλεφωνά σου.
Σεβομαι τον εαυτο μου και εσενα.
Ολα τα άλλα ειναι παιχνίδια ηλιθιοτητας, βλακειας και παλιμπαιδισμού,
ειναι σκουπίδια στον κηπο της καρδιας.

Αγάπη είναι να είσαι και να μην είσαι
μέσα σ΄ ένα σώμα μέσα σε μια ψυχή

Αγαπάτε με την καρδιά σας και με πάθος.
Μπορεί να πληγωθείτε,
αλλά είναι ο μόνος τρόπος να ζείτε με πληρότητα.

Angie Dreamcatcher

Published in: on Δεκέμβριος 13, 2010 at 5:24 μμ  Σχολιάστε  

Lonely night

Ειναι βραδυ και οπως παντα ειμαι κλεισμενη στο δωματιο μου ακουγοντας μουσικη. Ειναι μια ησυχη βραδια και ετσι χρειαζομαι καποιον θορυβο για να νιωσω πως υπαρχω και ετσι ακουω παντα μουσικη τα βραδια πριν κοιμηθω εκτος απο τις μερες που βρεχει, η βροχη με ηρεμει πιο πολυ, επειδη καθε φορα βγαινω στο μπαλκονι μου ή στην μεγαλη βεραντα και καθομαι με τις ωρες να βλεπω τις σταγονες της βροχης να πεφτουν με δυναμη στο εδαφος δημιουργοντας αυτη τη γλυκια μελωδια!

Foolish Games by Jewel

Σημερα ομως, ειναι καλυτερα που δεν βρεχει γιατι ετσι φαινεται ευκολα η πανσεληνος! Λατρευω την πανσεληνο! ❤

Full Moon

Yours,

AngieDreamcatcher

Published in: on Νοέμβριος 21, 2010 at 12:03 πμ  Σχολιάστε  

Hello world!

Hello!

This is my first post!So, I want to start with something that I’m very interested for; Vampires!

Myth and Lore;

A vampire feeds on the life essence of their victims. This usually occurs by drinking the blood of their victim. The reasons that the vampire needs blood to survive varies from culture to culture. Some feel that the vampire needs blood to flow through their veins to keep their bodies animated and limit the damage of decay. Others feel that the beasts feed as a sadistic habit in order to wreak havoc and fear.
This theory of course also makes on think that it may not be the blood that animates the vampire, but the fear & pain. Vampires aren’t particular they will drink the blood of animals as well as humans.

The most obvious characteristic that you think of when referring to the vampire is of course that the creature is dead a yet walks among the living. Most tales of vampirism tell us that these beings have fangs, are afraid of sunlight, they can shape-shift, (i.e. bats and wolves), they cry tears of blood, sleep in a coffin during the day and have extreme levels of strength and speed. Of course it goes without saying that this creature is immortal, unless of course killed using the proper methods.

As stated before different cultures have different myths about the vampires. For instancing European beliefs the vampire is dead, zombie like, hideously deformed from death and inherently evil. Whereas the American legend has been handed to us by Hollywood. The creature is a sensual, desirable one. Most of our movies and fiction combine the myth and legend of Europe, but also adds the dash of Americana, making this being a seductive beauty, with brawn as well as brains, and sometimes even a dash of compassion.

Who is a vampire? Are you predestined from birth to become one of the undead? In older lore vampires were people who died unnaturally and couldn’t face the fact that they were truly dead. In my research I found some really fun and interesting ways of becoming one with the undead. The most common way of becoming is of course being bitten by a vampire. From here on the becoming is very bizarre. Lets start with some of the predisposition’s; being conceived on a holy day, being weaned too early, being born the seventh son of the seventh son or receiving a curse. The last two are my personal favorites a mother who did not eat enough salt during pregnancy and a mother being stared at by a vampire while pregnant. Enough of predisposition’s, lets move onto ways that you can cause yourself to become a vampire. Common beliefs in older lore include being a witch or were-wolf, being cruel or evil person, committing suicide, being murdered or being the murderer. All these things can make you a vampire upon death. But wait, there are more ways to be a do-it-yourselfer. These are my personal favorites in this category; eating sheep killed by a wolf, leading an immoral life, (i.e. prostitutes & treacherous barmaids), or (for a priest) saying mass while in the state of mortal sin. For the Europeans after death becomings include; wind from the Russian Steppe blowing on the corpse and being buried face up in the grave, the latter of the two believed in certain parts of Romania. Other after death causes of the becoming are; having a cat or other animal jump or fly over a corpse, having a shadow fall on a corpse, no burial or improper burial rites, murder that is unrevenged, having ones brother sleep walk (?), death by drowning and finally stealing the ropes used to bury the corpse. So my research turned up many way to become a vampire.

How do you detect that someone is a vampire? Ever wonder if your friends, family or teachers are just Vampires leeching you dry? The following suggestions are taken basically from old myths and lore. If you find a corpse that is bloated, showed blood in the mouth, grew long nails and hair chances are that you are dealing with a vampire. (Of course in modern times we have realized that the previous conditions are all part of decomposition.) To detect a vampire at graveside or in the cemetery, if you are not looking for anyone in particular, first look for fingersized holes around the grave, look for disturbed dirt, constant mists, disturbed coffins, moved or fallen tombstones footprints leading to and from the grave, (just make sure that they aren’t your own), no birds singing, dogs barking and refusing to enter the cemetery, geese screaming when near the suspected grave and last, but not least, groaning sounds from under the earth.

If you think that someone you know has been a victim of vampirism or might possibly be a vampire here are some ways of detection. If the supposed victim suffers from one or more of the following list chances are that you are dealing with the undead. Things to look for are sleeplessness, nightmares, anemia, bite marks on the neck, (dead give away), exhaustion, nervousness, irritability, sleepwalking, difficulty in breathing, no appetite, weight loss, aversion to garlic, strange dental growths and photosensitivity. All taken together means that you are either dealing with a vampire or a parent of young children.

The appearance of the suggested vampire is also important. You should look for the following; fangs, red eyes, long fingernails, paleness, reluctance to enter a house without an invitation, hairy palms and aversion to bright lights. Also look to see if your family and/or friends have a reflection or cast a shadow.

Once you have determined that you are dealing with the undead, the following information is to help you prevent, protect and destroy your evil demon. Prevention for pre-burial is fun, here is just a sampling of what I found; destroyed vampire that caused death, close all windows, prevent moonlight from falling on the corpse, cover all mirrors, (keep in mind that these are old rituals used when people still buried their own), place corn or garlic in mouth and cover all standing water. Now for some of my personal favorites; pour incense into eyes, nose and ears of victim. Bind the body of the victim by tying the mouth shut, tying legs or feet together, weld the toes together (?), and then wrap in carpet or net. Decapitate the corpse and place the head under the arm or between legs or bury it in a separate grave. The number one favorite to prevent a loved one from becoming one of the undead, stretch a dead cat or dog across the threshold to the house.

If your prevention does not work, then you should try to protect yourself and your loved ones from the same fate. Garlic of course is one well-known method. It can be used on windows, doors, around the neck and under armpits (?); if you mix it with water it can be sprinkled or sprayed throughout an area. Also try fishnets on windows, doors and graves, for some unknown reason vampires are obsessed with untangling objects. Seeds are another way to protect yourself, just sprinkle into yard or walkways; vampires are compelled to count seeds (i.e. the count on Sesame Street). Holy water is yet another popular way of protection. Bells ringing will keep the undead away if ringing constantly. My last suggestion would be placing mirrors on the doors, because, as one author put it, it really annoys the vampire that they cannot see their own reflection.

If your prevention does not work, then you should try to protect yourself and your loved ones from the same fate. Garlic of course is one well-known method. It can be used on windows, doors, around the neck and under armpits (?); if you mix it with water it can be sprinkled or sprayed throughout an area. Also try fishnets on windows, doors and graves, for some unknown reason vampires are obsessed with untangling objects. Seeds are another way to protect yourself, just sprinkle into yard or walkways; vampires are compelled to count seeds (i.e. the count on Sesame Street). Holy water is yet another popular way of protection. Bells ringing will keep the undead away if ringing constantly. My last suggestion would be placing mirrors on the doors, because, as one author put it, it really annoys the vampire that they cannot see their own reflection.

Now that I have given you the information to detect, prevent and protect yourself from the evil critters, lets move onto Myths of the creation of the vampire. Many authors have written about vampires and their creation, but the story or myth that is my favorite is the «Myth of Merrydeath» by an unknown author.

The tale tells of a beautiful queen ruling for her children in ancient times. Keep in mind that this is a time when men were still new to the earth. Queen Meredith had taken a lover after years of being alone due to the king’s death. Her lover was Mambayan, a warrior chieftain and close friend of the king. Well as all good love stories go, her lover was wounded in battle. Also around the same time a vampfara was imprisoned in the castle keep. Meredith tried everything in her power to save Manbayan, but to no avail. Death was imminent. An old crone suggested that since the vampfara appeared to be able to heal itself, maybe they should try the blood of the vampfara to heal Manbayan. Meredith formed an idea in her mind to visit the vampfara and request his help. That very same night she did visit the vampfara. When she requested his blood to save her lover. The vampfara thought about her request and he requested his freedom in return. He told her that she must carry his blood inside of her, as it had to be kept warm. He bit her and drank her blood greedily and just as she was about to die he sliced his wrist and held it to her mouth, making her drink his blood. Then he told her that in order to save her lover she must repeat the same procedure. Of course they have now died and been made into vampires. The kingdom rebelled against the lovers who now walked with the undead and cast them out. As the story goes they are still roaming the night together and the vampfarant was freed as per agreement. That is the myth of Queen Merrydeath.

Yours,

AngieDreamcatcher

Published in: on Νοέμβριος 19, 2010 at 8:58 μμ  Σχολιάστε